I submit this post in honor of a (belated) Fathers' Day and "X" week at ABC Wednesday. I hope I don't offend anyone as I offer this bedtime story by Adam Mansbach, read by Samuel Jackson. It was forwarded to me by my sleep-deprived cousins as they learn to juggle life with their second child and I now share it with you:
THIS IS NOT A CHILDREN'S BOOK. IF you are having trouble with bedtime and getting your kids to sleep, please see my blog post: http://departingthetext.blogspot.com/2011/04/getting-them-to-sleep-bedtime-rituals.html
So, with a smirk on your face and the kids asleep.... let's talk X-rated mouths: What is your take on cursing?
I was raised by conservative parents who would not stand for cursing. (They threatened to wash my mouth out with soap if I cursed. I was a good girl - for the most part). As a result, I tend not to curse but I must confess, there are times when a good well placed curse (with emphasis) makes all the difference in the world! [Just ask my husband!]
What is your take on cursing? Is it alright to curse in front of your child? To your child?
An educator's perspective on cursing in front of kids: Don't do it (at least not regularly or intentionally - we all have our moments). There are so many truly colorful onomatopoeic expletives that can be used in lieu of cursing that present wonderful intellectual and verbal challenges to the creative communicator. I also think that aside from the well-deserved curse, using crass curse words too frequently cheapens our language. That said, I do love the delicately placed colorful curses as they add depth and diversity to conversations (and often just feel good releasing).
Here are some alternative expletives:
- persnickety
- shoot
- nuts
- whoopsadaisy
- fiddlesticks
- freaking
- sugar
- knucklehead
- halfwit
- dimwit
- numbskull
- lewd
- warped
- cavernous
- tedious
- I would my horse had the speed of your tongue! (Much Ado About Nothing)
- Thou art like a toad; ugly and venomous. (As You Like It)
- Thou art a flesh-monger, a fool and a coward. (Measure for Measure)
- A most notable coward, an infinite and endless liar, an hourly promise breaker, the owner of no one good quality. (All's Well That Ends Well)
- Thy tongue outvenoms all the worms of the Nile (Cymbeline)
- You scullion! You rampallian! You fustilarian! I'll tickle your catastrophe! (Henry IV Part 2)
- Go, prick thy face, and over-red thy fear, Thou lily-liver'd boy (Macbeth)
- Thine face is not worth sunburning. (Henry V)
- A foul and pestilent congregation of vapours. What a piece of work is man! (Hamlet)
- My two schoolfellows. Whom I shall trust as I will adders fangs. (Hamlet)
- Scurvy, old, filth, scurry lord (All's Well That Ends Well)
- You are not worth another word, else I'd call you knave. (All's Well That Ends Well)
- I desire that we be better strangers. (As You Like It)
- Beg that thou may have leave to hang theyself. (Merchant of Venice)
- Four of his five wits went halting off, and now is the whole man governed with one. (Much Ado About Nothing)
- This is a subtle whore, a closet lock and key of villainous secrets. (Othello)
- Hang cur, hang, you whoreson, insolent noisemaker. (The Tempest)
- Thou art a boil, a plague sore, an embossed carbuncle in my corrupted blood. (King Lear)
- It is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing (Macbeth)
- milksops
- braggarts
- artless
- bawdy
- base-court
- beetle-headed
- beef-witted
- boil-brained
- clay-brained
- barnacle
- beslubbering
- clapper-clawed
- canker-blossom
- craven
- curish
- errant
- dankish
- fobbing
- frothy
- earth-vexing
- fen-sucked
- folly-fallen
- haggard
- haughty
- lewd minx
- loggerheaded
- lout
- maggot-pie
- mewling
- paunchy
- ill-breeding
- malt-worm
- mammet
- puny
- puking
- minnow
- rutish
- roguish
- reeky
- rank
- pernicious
- plume-plucked
- pox-marked
- surly
- ratsbane
- swag-bellied
- scut
- strumpet
- timorous wretch
- vassal
- villainous
- wart-necked
- urchin-snouted
- whey-faced
- yeasty
This list is a mere sampling. Explore the remainders on your own or with your child, friend, or nemesis. In the meantime, here is one more clip.
Please leave comments on how you handle cursing, cursing with kids, and cursing alternatives. PLEASE leave some of your favorite gems!